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ROBERT D. GUSTAFSON
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COLORADO SPRINGS STEP PARENT ADOPTION
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HOMEPAGE INDEX - COLORADO SPRINGS STEPPARENT ADOPTION
COLORADO SPRINGS GRANDPARENT ADOPTION & RELATIVE ADOPTION

GENERAL INFORMATION BEST INTEREST OF CHILD BACKGROUND CHECK
VOLUNTARY RELINQUISHMENT
consent of non-residential birth parent
INVOLUNTARY TERMINATION
birth parent non-support or abandonment
STEP PARENT ADOPTION PETITION - Facts to Be Established PROCEDURE DECREE FINALITY
NOTICE OF PROCEEDINGS
birth parent to be given notice of adoption
NO PROMISES
non-residential birth parent or birth family

RELATIVE ADOPTION  

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GRANDPARENT ADOPTION
ADOPTION BY RELATIVE
defined relation - child's aunt, uncle, brother, sister
ACCESS TO ADOPTION INFORMATION
Court File, Adoption Agency or Adoption Registry
STRAIGHT ADOPTION
adoption by person with no pre-defined relationship
FILING FEES & BIRTH CERTIFICATE COST ESTATE PLANNING ADOPTION CONSIDERATIONS
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Colorado Springs Step Parent Adoption & Grandparent Adoption & Relative Adoption
relinquishment or non-support termination of parental rights, birth parent skip tracing - parent locator

COLORADO SPRINGS
STEPPARENT ADOPTION

 
 
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1.  WHO MAY BE ADOPTED  Any child under eighteen years of age present in the state at the time the petition for adoption is filed and legally available for adoption may be adopted. Upon approval of the court, a person eighteen years of age or older and under twenty-one years of age may be adopted as a child.

2.  WHO MAY ADOPT.  A step-parent adoption is filed by the spouse of a party with children. The adopting step-parent is the attorney's client, not the birth parent spouse. Relinquishment (voluntary surrender) of parental rights or involuntary termination of parental rights is accomplished within the adoption lawsuit. No separate suit is required.

3.  RESIDENCY  You must physically reside in Colorado. A petition for adoption can only be filed in the county of residence of the petitioner or in the county in which the placement agency is located. CRS 19-5-204  No placement agency exists in a step-parent adoption, therefore the suit is filed in the adoptive step-parent's county of residence.

        No domicile requirement is contained in the adoption statutes. Domicile is not the same as simply living here; you acquire legal residency by having significant contacts with the state. You must intend to permanently reside here, or return here after your travels are done. Some of the domiciliary indicators are: Colorado driver's license, Colorado automobile registration, paying Colorado state income taxes, registration to vote in Colorado, banking in Colorado, and home ownership or having executed a lease. For domicile, military personnel must claim Colorado as their home of record; an affidavit of residency is available at any military finance office, Form DD-2058.

        Since physical residence only, not domicile, is required, an adoption lawsuit can be initiated on behalf of a person physically residing in Colorado, but claiming another state as legal residence. That most common circumstance would be military families. Local courts have entered final adoption decrees for my clients in the military claiming another state as their legal residence.

4.  MARRIAGE DURATION  Colorado law does not require any specific length of marriage of the adopting step-parent and birth parent spouse. Local courts in El Paso County do require one year of marriage before the juvenile magistrate will grant a decree of adoption. Common law marriage is lawful in Colorado and works as well as a statutory marriage - ceremony performed by judge, magistrate, pastor, priest or minister.  Terminating the parent-child relation and establishing another is an important matter in a child's life. Local courts wish to see a degree of stability.

5.  GROUNDS  The grounds in Colorado for a step-parent adoption are either consent of the non-residential birth parent, or involuntary termination of his or her rights to the parent-child legal relation based upon non-support or abandonment.

6.  COMPENSATION FOR PLACING CHILD PROHIBITED - CRS 19-5-213

        (1) (a) No person shall offer, give, charge, or receive any money or other consideration or thing of value in connection with the relinquishment and adoption, except attorney fees and such other charges and fees as may be approved by the court.
             (b) No person, other than an adoption exchange whose membership includes county departments and child placement agencies, a licensed child placement agency, or a county department, shall offer, give, charge, or receive any money or other consideration or thing of value in connection with locating or identifying for purposes of adoption any child, natural parent, expectant natural parent, or prospective adoptive parent; except that physicians and attorneys may charge reasonable fees for professional services customarily performed by such persons.
        (2) Any person who violates the provisions of this section is guilty of a misdemeanor and, upon conviction thereof, shall be punished by a fine of not less than one hundred dollars nor more than five hundred dollars, or by imprisonment for ninety days in the county jail, or by both such fine and imprisonment.

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        The non-residential birth parent executes a document relinquishing his or her parental rights. The parent will be advised of his or her right to contest termination of parental rights, right to trial and representation by counsel. Any consent must be freely and voluntarily given, without undue influence, duress, coercion or fraud.

        Local courts have approved a residential birth parent offering release of liability for past due child support in return for the non-residential birth parent's relinquishment. That offer, combined with an advisement the adoption will be processed on involuntarily termination with subsequent suit to enforce support arrearages may be an inducement to the non-residential birth parent to execute a relinquishment. Waiver of support arrearages need not be offered.

        No parental waiver can affect, nor prejudice any claim or cause of action of any State or County governmental agency arising out of an assignment of rights to child support relative to welfare benefits received by that parent or any third person on behalf of a child. The offer to waive child support arrears or expenses of confinement and delivery must be made expressly excluding any such governmental claims.

        The residential parent should be careful in making any offer to waive support arrearages to include a date on which the offer is automatically withdrawn without further notice. This precludes the non-residential parent from accepting the offer after involuntary termination of his or her parental rights. The offer should also be expressly contingent upon entry of the termination and adoption decrees.

        If a written relinquishment is received from the non-residential birth parent, on the date set to finalize the adoption decree no matters remain clouded. Even though the consent could be withdrawn at the last minute, consent usually places the adoptive family in high spirits before the hearing.

        For whatever reason, the non-residential birth parent fails or refuses to execute a document relinquishing his or her parental rights.  The petitioner must establish by clear and convincing evidence at hearing

        1. No child support whatsoever has been received for a period of 12 consecutive months immediately preceding the filing of the lawsuit.

        2. Failure to pay reasonable support was without cause; the non-residential birth parent had the ability to contribute reasonable support. Contribution need not be the full amount of the support ordered to constitute payment of reasonable support under the circumstances. Karaken v. Valdesuso, 33 Colo. App. 47, 50, 515 P.2d 128, 130 (1773). Colorado courts have held that failure of a prisoner in the state penitentiary earning $1.50 per day to contribute anything to child support was not just cause; he had the ability to contribute reasonable support from his meager earnings. In re R.H.N., 710 P.2d 482 (Colo. 1985).

        3. There is no reasonable likelihood that the non-residential birth parent will provide future child support. Past conduct is the polestar.

        4. The non-residential birth parent has abandoned the child.

        5. The best interests of the child will be served by the adoption.

        If the petition alleges non-support, this attorney prepares an arrearage computation which includes each child support payment due for the period commencing the date ordered to the date of adoption lawsuit preparation, each payment received, and interest computed at the statutory rate (Colorado 12% per annum) based upon irregular transactions. With the computation the court can easily ascertain the periods of non-support and total arrearage amount. The non-residential birth parent obligor is advised of the alleged arrearage for which he or she is obligated and which may be enforced absent waiver by the obligee.  Refer to the support enforcement page in my primary website.

        In determining the best interests of the child, the court may consider among other factors, family stability, the present and future effects of adoption, including the detrimental effects of termination of parental rights, the child's emotional ties and interaction with the contestants, the adjustment of the child to the living situation, the child's age, and the mental and physical health of the parties.

        Frequently attorney's see a situation where the non-residential birth parent has failed to maintain physical visits or telephone contact for a period of time, failed to send birthday or holiday cards, failed to communicate by letter, and has failed to provide any support. These are facts you should document, and you should provide any cards or correspondence to your attorney.

        Positive factors of the interaction between the child and the adoptive step-parent include support he or she has provided, maintaining a home for the child, common activities and interests shared between them, assistance with homework, attendance at school activities or transport for medical or dental care, conversations regarding important life events and maturation, and the like. The court will look to see if the adoptive step-parent has in fact established and fulfilled the role of a parent to the child.

1. Adoptive parent and spouse birth parent:
        residence now and at time of child's birth
        birth date + location, age, sex, race, social security no.
        occupation now and at time of child's birth
        years domiciled in Colorado and whether military
        birth mother's maiden name
        cohabitation date + marriage date and location
        relationship to child
        Petitioner adoptive parent is of good moral character, is gainfully employed, has the ability to support and educate the child and maintains a suitable home for the child

2. Child
        name at present and after adoption
        residence now and at time of birth
        birth date + location, age, sex, race, social security no.
        description of child's property
        guardian of child's person or estate
        caretaking arrangements since separation from non-residential birth parent

3. Prior court orders regarding custody, guardianship or support
        date, location, court, case number, contents of former orders

4. Other children of adoptive parent or spouse birth parent
        identification information - natural or adopted, living or dead

5. Non-residential birth parent
        residence now and at time of child's birth
        birth date + location, age, sex, race, social security no.
        occupation now and at time of child's birth
        relationship to child
        circumstances surrounding support since separation from child + arrearage, if any
        circumstances surrounding physical visits or abandonment, if any, since separation from child

6. Circumstances surrounding an offer, if any, of the residential birth parent to waive child support arrearages in return for the non-residential birth parent's relinquishment.

7. Consent of residential birth parent spouse to the adoption.

8. Consent of the child to be adopted if age 12 or above. (Little ones seem to get a kick out of signing a consent, even with crayon drawings)

9. Petitioner adoptive parent, residential birth parent spouse and child are residents of the county and state in which the petition is filed to confer jurisdiction and venue.

10. Petition is filed in good faith for the purpose of building a nuclear family, not for an illegitimate purpose such as vendetta or to gain access to a child's assets.

11. The best interest of the child will be served by the adoption.

12. By statute: whether the prospective adoptive parent was convicted at any time by a court of competent jurisdiction of a felony in one of the following areas: child abuse or neglect; spousal abuse; any crime against a child; or any crime involving violence, rape, sexual assault, or homicide, or other physical assault or battery. In addition, the petitioner shall attach to the petition a current criminal records check, paid for by the petitioner. I also include similar information reported by the client regarding the residential birth parent or non-residential birth parent, except that criminal records histories are not attached for the residential birth parent or non-residential birth parent unless such crimes exist.

13. Whether or not the adoptive step-parent has ever been delinquent in child support regarding another child for whom support was ordered, or whether the adoptive step-parent has ever relinquished parental rights regarding another child with whom he had a legal parent-child relation.

14. A statement of all attorney's fees charged or costs relative to this adoption must be filed, as well as a statement of any amounts given to the non-residential birth parent or any other third person. The legislature's intent was to avoid black market babies - CRS 19-5-213 above.

 

        Three background checks of the adoptive parent are required under Colorado law in adoptions
           this includes step parent adoption, relative adoption & straight adoption
                1.  Colorado Bureau of Investigation (CBI) fingerprint based background check
                2.  Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) fingerprint based background check
                3.  Colorado Department of Human Services TRAILS report - child abuse background check
                Refer to
CRS 19-5-207, CRS 19-5-208, and CRS 19-5-210

                                PURSUANT TO STATUTE, ADOPTION DECREE MAY NOT ENTER ABSENT ABOVE BACKGROUND CHECKS

Additionally, counsel runs the following searches on the adoptive parent, adoptive parent's spouse (birth parent), and the opposing birth parent whose parental rights are sought to be terminated.  Searches are conducted by name, date of birth & social security number.
                1. Colorado driving record & any other state recently licensed
                2. Colorado Judiciary state courts litigation history search
                3.  CBI background check based upon name, date of birth & social security number
                4. Nationwide by states criminal history history search

 
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Colorado DHS TRAILS Check Application & Release to Gustafson
Sample Fingerprint Card - for information to be inserted
FBI Fingerprint Background Check Request & Release to Gustafson
CBI - fingerprint card transmitted with attorney background check request letter
Listing of DHS Child Abuse & Neglect Central Registries by State
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1. Criminal History and Abuse History of Adoptive Parent - potential problems
        The following may be problematic if the adoptive parent was convicted at any time of a felony or misdemeanor in one of the following areas:
                (A) Child abuse or neglect;
                (B) Spousal abuse;
                (C) Any crime against a child, including but not limited to child pornography;
                (D) Any crime, the underlying factual basis of which has been found by the court on the record to include an act of domestic violence,
                                as defined in section CRS 18-6-800.3:
                (E) Violation of a protection order, as described in section 18-6-803.5, C.R.S.;
                (F) Any crime involving violence, rape, sexual assault, or homicide; or
                (G) Any felony physical assault or battery conviction or felony drug-related conviction within, at a minimum, the past five years.
        Conviction for any other criminal offense may be considered by the Court in determining whether the adoption is in the best interest of the child.

 

2. Criminal History and Abuse History of Adoptive Parent - possible solution
CRS 19-5-207(2.5)(b) - partial excerpt
                (I) Except as otherwise provided in subparagraph (II) of this paragraph (b), a person convicted of a felony offense specified in subparagraph (IV) of paragraph (a) of this subsection (2.5) may be allowed to adopt a child if:
                         (A) The applicant has had no further arrests or convictions subsequent to the conviction;
                        (B) The applicant has not been convicted of a pattern of misdemeanors, as defined by rule of the state board of human services; and
                        (C) The court enters a finding consistent with section 19-5-210(2)(d) that the adoption is in the best interests of the child.
                (II) A person convicted of a felony offense as described in this subparagraph (II) shall not be allowed to adopt a child if there is:
                        (A) A felony conviction on the application for adoption that involves child abuse, as described in section 18-6-401, C.R.S.; a crime of violence, as defined in section 18-1.3-406, C.R.S.; or a felony offense involving unlawful sexual behavior, as defined in section 16-22-102(9), C.R.S.;
                        (B) A felony conviction on the application for adoption that occurred less than five years prior to the application that involved physical assault or battery or a drug-related offense; or
                        (C) A felony conviction on the application for adoption that occurred less than ten years prior to the application and involved domestic violence, as defined in section 18-6-800.3, C.R.S.

        The adoptive step-parent will file a petition asking the court to approve placement, terminate the legal parent-child relation of the non-residential birth parent and to grant a decree of adoption establishing the legal parent-child relation between petitioner and the child.  Adoptions are filed in juvenile court; e-Filing is not available at this time.

        Upon filing, the court will review placement and enter an order regarding approval. A return date on the petition will be set by the court. The non-residential birth parent is entitled to 20 days notice if a resident of Colorado, 30 days notice if a resident out of Colorado. I generally set that return date 75 - 90 days after filing to allow time for service of process and response time to elapse on interrogatories and requests for admissions.

        If the non-residential birth parent has failed to file a response or otherwise contact petitioner, counsel or the court, the court will hear the merits of the case at the return date. A decree may enter terminating the parent-child relation of the non-residential birth parent and a separate decree may enter granting the adoption. The client is provided with certified copies of each decree. A certified copy of the decree of relinquishment or termination is sent to the non-residential birth parent.

        Juvenile court has exclusive jurisdiction in adoptions. Proceedings are closed to the public - the courtroom doors are actually locked to preserve confidentiality.

        At the final orders hearing, the court will usually permit admittance of family members if requested by the parties. The child can be kept in the hall and shielded from termination testimony, however must be physically present during adoption testimony. Courts frequently permit camcorder recording, or still photographs. After entry of orders, it has been my experience that juvenile magistrates may be most willing to have the child placed in his or her lap for a photograph at the bench with family members surrounding the Court. Kids have been able to pound the gavel and play judge. I've seen juvenile magistrates present a cupcake, light a sparkler or waive a magic wand. This is a joyous event. Don't forget your camera.  If I provide representation, at final hearing I would bring a digital camera to memorialize the occasion & provide pictures to the client on CD.  That service would be free in celebration of the adoption.

        A certified copy of each decree is sent to the state agency which entered the original birth certificate. A new birth certificate is prepared reflecting the adoptive step-parent and spouse birth parent as birth parents for the child. The original birth certificate is sealed and not accessible pursuant to CRS 25-2-113

        In the adoption decree, the child's first and middle names may be retained, or may be changed. The surname is frequently changed to that of the adoptive parent, however that also is parental choice. You should consider names. If the child is not an infant, consult the child and perhaps a child psychologist. Change of identity by changing the first and middle names is a family decision, but may not be a good idea.

        An adoption should be commenced for the purpose of building a lawful, nuclear family. Usually the family exists in fact long before an attorney is contacted, and the purpose is simply to give that family legal existence and validity. However, an adoption should never be commenced as a means of punishing the absent birth parent.

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        Once final orders are entered, the adoptive step-parent becomes a lawful parent as though he or she were a birth parent of a child born in lawful wedlock. Should your marriage later fail and dissolution of marriage proceedings be commenced, the adoptive parent has equal standing for allocation of parental rights and parenting time (fka custody and visitation). By the same token, he or she will also be held to the same standard as any other parent for child support. Regardless of the spouse birth parent's income capacity, you can not say oooops, judge this adoption was a mistake and let's set it aside - he or she doesn't need the support. 

        Set aside does not happen.  Succinctly stated.  Be certain of your purposes and marriage stability.

 

        In cases where the adoptive parent is the step-father, this attorney has encountered statements from the spouse birth mother that she was uncertain as to the identity of the birth father. That is not acceptable. In such a circumstance, each man with whom she had sexual intercourse at or near the time of conception must be served as a putative (alleged or possible) birth father. This attorney has also been advised the location of the non-residential birth parent is unknown. That also is not acceptable. You can't hide the adoption from the birth parent.

        The non-residential birth parent must be given notice of the proceedings to terminate his or her legal parent-child relation. Constitutional due process (fairness) mandates notice.

        If you are unable to personally serve the non-residential birth parent, publication in the local newspaper will be ordered. That is called constructive notice, the best notice that can be given under the circumstances. Before you publish, you must file a motion for publication with the court, accompanied by an affidavit of the efforts made to locate the non-residential birth parent. If the court finds reasonable efforts have failed to locate, an order for publication will enter.

 

        The parent-child legal relationship is the structural foundation of family. It is constitutionally protected. Any decree of termination or adoption entered upon publication notice is subject to later collateral attack. The non-residential birth parent may ask that the court orders be set aside upon the grounds that he or she did not receive notice, insufficient efforts were utilized to locate and provide notice to him or her, and the proceedings are constitutionally defective. That's the stuff of which those heart rendering TV movies are made.  Don't try to hide the location of the birth parent being terminated.

 

        If the non-residential birth parent is willing to sign a paper saying he or she received the legal documents, you can use the mail and there is no charge for service of process. That is called waiver and acceptance of service of process. Parents whose rights are being terminated don't sign. I don't recommend attempting waiver of service. Attempted wavier of service only sets up expense of re-preparing the suit for service and necessity of re-setting the court return date.

 

        Notice is best accomplished by personal service - a person unrelated to the litigation physically hands the non-residential birth parent a copy of the lawsuit documents which include the court return date, then provides an affidavit of service of process. Once the non-residential birth parent has been given personal service notice of the lawsuit and the return date, he or she is then precluded from a later collateral attack based upon lack of notice. If I am your counsel, I require that back door be closed. I will utilize the services of a private investigator to locate the non-residential birth parent and provide notice by personal service. If a client declined investigator services, I would refuse or withdraw representation.

 
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What do I do if I can't find the birth parent?

attorney has SKIP TRACING capabilities in litigation cases or a PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR may be required
NOTE: attorney accesses databases only during litigation preparation - not available to the general public

A client may save expense by verification of the birth parent's current contact information before referring the matter to the attorney for litigation.  If self help fails, search databases are available to Gustafson Law Office which can not be accessed by the general public.  Refer to above skip tracing link.  Government child support enforcement units establish paternity, enforce support & have access to governmental tax databases such as welfare or worker's compensation to which employers report quarterly or annually.  Private counsel and private persons can not access welfare or tax databases.  If a CSE has worked a support enforcement case, contact the CSE for a potential address before retaining private counsel or ordering a commercial (pay) search.  Feel free to bookmark this page in case the CSE option doesn't work out.

Adoptive child searching for birth parent or birth parent searching for adoptive child
Please refer to
Adoption Information Access

 
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        If communication lines are open, I ask the residential birth parent to contact the non-residential birth parent to ascertain whether he or she would agree to a relinquishment. If effective communication does not exist, no contact should be made. After that initial phone call, it is usually best that neither the adoptive step-parent nor the residential birth parent have further contact. It is important to avoid allegations of duress, coercion, undue influence or fraud. Keep your long distance phone bills as evidence of phone calls or lack thereof.

        Investigator skip tracing can involve significant expense. When confronted with the skip tracing or investigator financial burden and knowledge that the adoption is subject to being set aside absent actual notice, former clients have somehow found information to aid in service of process on the non-residential birth parent. Similarly, when confronted with knowledge of potential later collateral attack, the identity of the non-residential birth parent has somehow become apparent. If publication notice were to be utilized, the supporting affidavit of the residential birth parent combined with an investigator's affidavit of location efforts would provide the best protection possible against collateral attack. Thus far, in each of my step-parent adoption cases notice has been given by personal service. I plan to keep it that way - no client wants his or her heart-ache broadcast in a TV movie. Here, an ounce of prevention is indeed worth a pound of cure.

        Service of process on an average costs around $85, but can vary. Service is frequently accomplished out of state and expense varies widely with region or distance the process server or investigator must travel to remote locations. For some unexplainable reason, the birth parent being served in several of my cases has lived out in the toolies where the buses don't run.

        Relinquishment or termination decree and adoption decree sever all legal relationships between the non-residential birth parent and the child. Extended family rights such as grandparent are derivative, and thus are also severed. The adoptive parent and residential birth parent should never promise or agree to continued visitation or other rights in exchange for relinquishment or for some other reason. Do not create any expectations. Those promises, agreements, inducements, offers or weak moments may later be used as a reason to set aside the termination and adoption.

        Waiver of child support arrearages in return for voluntary relinquishment would be the only exception to the rule against promises to the opposing birth parent, and even that would be documented in the adoption proceedings.

 

        For purposes of this webpage:

  1.         Grandparent adoption refers to adoption wherein a relinquishing birth parent designates the grandparent(s) as the guardian(s) and proposed adoptive parent(s).  This is known as a designated adoption.

  2.         Relative adoption refers to adoption wherein a relinquishing birth parent designates a relative as the guardian(s) and proposed adoptive parent(s).  Statutorily defined relationship is that of the child's aunt, uncle, brother, or sister.

        Designated grandparent or relative adoption is a hybrid between the straight adoption and step-parent adoption process.

        a.  In step parent adoptions, relinquishment or termination occurs in the same lawsuit and is generally entered at the same time as the adoption decree.  
        b.  In straight adoptions, relinquishment or termination of parental rights is the subject of a separate lawsuit for each birth parent.  
        c.  In grandparent or relative adoptions, relinquishment or termination of parental rights is again the subject of a separate lawsuit for each birth parent.

        No placement of any child legally available for adoption shall be made for the purposes of adoption except by the court, the county department of social services, or a licensed child placement agency.  CRS 19-5-206(1)  

         Birth parent or parents may designate a specific applicant with whom they may wish to place their child for purposes of adoption. After assessment and approval of the potential adoptive parents and subsequent relinquishment of the child, the court shall grant guardianship of the child to a person or agency described in section 19-5-104 (1) until finalization of adoptive placement...  All requirements and provisions of this article pertaining to relinquishment and adoption shall apply to designated adoptions.  CRS 19-5-206 (2) (a)

        Where grandparent or relative adoptions differ from a non-relative straight adoption:

  1.         The court may waive the assessment and approval requirements of paragraph (a) of this subsection (2) in cases where the birth parent or parents have designated the child's grandparent, aunt, uncle, brother, or sister as the person with whom they wish to place their child for purposes of adoption. The court may proceed to finalize such adoptive placement upon finding that the placement is in the best interests of the child.  CRS 19-5-206 (2)(c)

  2.         The court may waive the assessment and approval of the potential adoptive parents in cases involving kinship or custodial adoption or may determine and order what kind of information or written report it deems necessary, including an abbreviated home study or home evaluation. The court may proceed to finalize such adoptive placement upon finding that the placement is in the best interests of the child.   CRS 19-5-206 (2)(c)

  3.         This essentially means the court may, in its discretion - but need not, proceed to finalization without requiring involvement of and assessment by  an adoption agency - licensed child placement agency.  Prior guardianship or residential care of the child by the grandparent or relative increases the potential for the court to waive the licensed child placement agency assessment, homestudy, background check and possible parenting classes.  This is a significant expense savings - possibly thousands of dollars.

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BIRTH PARENT RELINQUISHMENT COUNSELING

 

        Herein comes a major difference between step-parent adoption and grandparent adoption.

        Except in step-parent adoption,  the Colorado relinquishment statute, provides for relinquishment counseling.  This includes grandparent or relative adoption.  Refer to the link to read the statute, or Colorado Revised Statutes (CRS) are available in the local law library supported by the El Paso County Bar Association - you may ask a librarian for assistance in locating statute books.

        CRS 19-5-103(1)(a) provides any parent desiring to relinquish his or her child shall obtain counseling for himself or herself and the child to be relinquished as the court deems appropriate.  The relinquishing parent and petitioning grandparent or relative may request that the court waive relinquishment counseling, however other language contained in the statutes and Birth Parent's Relinquishment Affidavit emphasize relinquishment counseling.  Litigants should anticipate that the request will be denied and that proceedings will be stayed until relinquishment counseling has been conducted by an adoption agency - licensed child placement agency.  The cost of relinquishment counseling may exceed $1,200.  Call any agency for prices.  For a listing of Colorado Child Placement Agencies, you may contact the El Paso County DHS - fka DSS or the Colorado State Department of Human Services.

        Attorney Note.  Representing an adoptive grandparent or other relative, on the conservative side I advise my clients that relinquishment counseling for the relinquishing birth parent is prudent.  If the relinquishment counseling is conducted, a door is closed to possible subsequent collateral attack.  If not conducted, the relinquishing parent could potentially later claim he / she did not have a full understanding of the consequences and ramifications of his or her relinquishment act and due process protections were not afforded.  Pay for and have the birth parents complete relinquishment counseling before you commence the relinquishment and adoption legal proceedings.

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1.  ACCESS TO COURT RECORDS The relevant statutes are CRS 19-5-301, et. seq.
                CRS 19-5-301 Legislative Declaration
                CRS 19-5-302 Repealed
                CRS 19-5-303 Intermediary Commission
                CRS 19-5-304 Confidential Intermediaries
                CRS 19-3-305 Access to Adoption Records - Contact
                CRS 19-5-306 Public Information Campaign
                CRS 19-5-307 Child Placement Agency - Transfer of Records
        Vital Records - Adoption - Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
                Information re birth certificates & identifying / locating birth families
        Colorado Courts - Forms - Adoption - Confidential Intermediary - Index & Download
            Proceedings to open adoption and relinquishment court files

ADOPTIONS PRIOR TO SEPTEMBER 1, 1999

        A person may file a motion with the court to have a confidential intermediary appointed who has been trained by the state. The appointed intermediary will be given access to court records.

        Any information obtained by the confidential intermediary during the course of his or her investigation shall be kept strictly confidential and shall be utilized only for the purpose of arranging a contact between the individual who initiated the search and the sought-after biological relative or for the purpose of obtaining consent for the release of adoption records.

        When a sought-after biological relative is located by a confidential intermediary on behalf of the individual who initiated the search, the confidential intermediary shall obtain consent from both parties that they wish to personally communicate with one another.

        Contact shall be made between the parties involved in the investigation only when consent for such contact has been received by the court.

        If consent for personal communication is not obtained from both parties, all relinquishment and adoption records and any information obtained by any confidential intermediary during the course of his or her investigation shall be returned to the court and shall remain confidential.

ADOPTIONS ON OR AFTER SEPTEMBER 1, 1999

        All adoption records relating to adoptions finalized on or after September 1, 1999, shall be open to inspection and available for copying by an adult adoptee, an adult adoptive parent, or the legal representative of any such individual. In addition, some records specified by statute relating to adoptions finalized on or after September 1, 1999, shall be open to inspection and available for copying by an adult adoptee's adoptive grandparent, an adult descendant of an adult adoptee or the adoptive parent, an adoptee's legal guardian, an adoptee's spouse, or the legal representative of any such individual. No other person or entity shall have access to such records except as otherwise provided by law.

        The adoption records shall not be open for inspection or available for copying with respect to any identifying information concerning a birth parent if such birth parent has previously provided the court with a signed and notarized written statement within three years after the final order of relinquishment or termination specifying that such parent wishes the identifying information concerning that parent to remain confidential. The written statement shall remain in the court's relinquishment or termination file unless later withdrawn by the parent. The birth parent submitting such a written statement may also submit to the court a letter of explanation that shall be released to the adoptee at the time that the adoptee makes a request for inspection of the adoption records.

        An adult adoptee may, at any time, provide the court that finalized the adoption with a signed and notarized written statement specifying that such adult adoptee wishes to maintain the identifying information concerning that adoptee confidential. The written statement shall remain in the court's adoption file unless later withdrawn by the adoptee.

        If either an adult adoptee or a birth parent has provided a statement to the court file requesting confidentiality, a motion may nevertheless be filed requesting the confidential intermediary process.

        Contact by an adult adoptee, an adult adoptive parent, or an adult descendant of the adoptee or the adoptive parent with a birth parent or biological relative may be attempted at any time directly or through another person or agency including, but not limited to, a confidential intermediary.

        Contact with a birth parent who has previously provided a written statement to the court as described above may be attempted through a court appointed confidential intermediary.

        A birth parent shall have access to adoption records and contact with the adoptee or the adoptive family as otherwise provided by law - via an intermediary.

2.  ACCESS TO IDENTIFYING INFORMATION 
        OF LICENSED CHILD PLACEMENT AGENCIES

        Upon proof of identity of the person submitting the consent form, a licensed child placement agency shall accept a consent form from an adult adoptee or from either adult adoptee's birth parent or from an adult adoptive parent authorizing the release of identifying information, as that term is statutorily defined, to the extent such information is available to the child placement agency.

        Upon inquiry by an adult adoptee or an adult adoptee's birth parent or an adult adoptive parent seeking information about another party from a licensed child placement agency, the child placement agency shall be authorized to release identifying information to the inquiring person, upon proof of identity by the inquiring person, if the licensed child placement agency is in possession of a consent form from the party about whom information is sought authorizing such release.

        In those circumstances in which a child placement agency has released identifying information, the child placement agency may attempt to locate the person who had originally submitted the consent form and, upon locating such person, advise him or her of the release. If the inquiring person also submitted a consent form authorizing the release of identifying information about him or her, the child placement agency may provide such identifying information to the person located.

        A licensed child placement agency that accepts a consent form may charge a reasonable fee to cover the direct and indirect costs associated with the services provided if a written fee agreement has been signed by the agency and the party submitting the consent form prior to the provision of any service. The licensed child placement agency shall be required to provide a list of names, addresses, and telephone numbers of organizations performing similar services prior to signing any fee agreement with any party submitting a consent form. Information in the post-adoption record is confidential and shall not be disclosed by the department of human services, a licensed child placement agency, or a court except as specifically permitted by statute or as may be deemed necessary by the department of human services in performing its duties.

        If multiple siblings were adopted, access to adoption records and contact with an adoptee shall not occur until all of the siblings adopted by the family have attained eighteen years of age.

3.  VOLUNTARY ADOPTION REGISTRY

        A voluntary adoption registry has been established by the State of Colorado pursuant to CRS 24-2-113.5  Adult adoptees or parents who relinquished a child may file identification, a consent and a method of contact. In the event of a matching inquiry, the registry will notify each inquiring party of the match before releasing identifying information. The sealed original birth certificate will not be released. A small fee is assessed by the state. Relevant Colorado agency:

Colorado Department of Health - Vital Records - Adoption Coordinator

ADOPTION CONSIDERATIONS
no special qualification - just a layman's thoughts

 

INDEPENDENT SERVICE PROVIDERS

 

        Where relevant, attorney utilizes the services of independent professionals.  Rates of independent providers of professional services change periodically and billings are not controlled by counsel.

 

        If retained by counsel as an agent of the attorney, such independent service providers are protected and bound by the attorney-client privilege and the attorney work product doctrine.  If retained privately by the client, no such agency or confidentiality exists.

 

ADOPTION BY STEP PARENT OR RELATIVES
DO I NEED AN ATTORNEY?

Do I need an attorney?
 
 
 
 
 
Client Fact Sheet &
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Probably time to loosen the pocket book and hire a family law attorney.

Perhaps you may be able to prepare and file the lawsuit as well as argue final orders hearing, procure termination and adoption decrees and a new birth certificate.  On the other hand, error and the possibility of a collateral attack to set aside the termination and adoption could be heart rendering - TV movie material.  Creation of a legal parent-child relation is an important event which should be accomplished properly.  I strongly recommend a family retain the services of an attorney.  You may retain my services or the services of another attorney, but hire competent counsel.

Please refer to Document Management regarding format of documents provided to attorney.
This could save you significant costs.

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STEPPARENT ADOPTION & GRANDPARENT ADOPTION

        At the time of the first visit, a prospective client will be quoted hourly attorney fees and estimated costs. The hourly fee and initial trust deposit quotes will be honored for a period of seven (7) days, after which quotes are subject to change without notice if this office has not been retained.  Attorney is a sole practitioner with need to manage his caseload.  Pending proposed client acceptance and payment, retainer agreement proposals are subject to withdrawal.  Attorney reserves the right to decline any case.
 
        Included in attorney's primary website is a web page devoted to clear definition & understanding of free
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STEP PARENT ADOPTION & GRAND PARENT ADOPTION

This office bills hourly fees only in family law cases.  Time expended determines fees.  I am unable to predict behavior of parties who were in a previous relationship and may be emotional.  I can not predict whether a birth parent may voluntarily relinquish or default.  Therefore I do not offer adoption flat fees and I do not offer contingency (percentage) fees regarding support enforcement.

PAYMENT

Prior to commencement of representation, the attorney will quote the amount requested as a trust deposit against which attorney's fees and costs may be billed.  The requested trust deposit will be dependent upon the facts and circumstances of your case.

Colorado Springs Attorney Robert D. Gustafson
HOURLY ATTORNEY FEES

LITIGATION COSTS DEPOSIT
$       hourly   
$    
variable   
 
  step parent adoption
common initial
trust deposit request
including attorney's fees & litigation costs - excluding travel
map * travel policy - time & expenses * travel rates
 

$2,000*

 

step-parent adoption or grand-parent adoption
* this shall not constitute an offer, nor be construed as a binding estimate

Client authorization is obtained for any large cost expense.  Final expenditure may run less or client may periodically be asked for additional amounts to be deposited to trust if fees and costs will exceed previous deposits. 

Client will be provided with a trust accounting and itemized billing statement when there has been activity on the account.  At the end of each case, a detailed accounting summary is provided and remaining trust proceeds are refunded.

trust deposit for anticipated fees & costs is due when retained

attorney does not accept installment payments

regular billings are scheduled on the 1st and 15th
payment not received as agreed = representation withdrawn

COSTS
Out of pocket expenses (costs) are the responsibility of the client.
Specific adoption filing fees or court costs Generic costs relevant to any adoption
Generic costs relevant to any litigation
PARTIAL LIST OF POTENTIAL COSTS
out of pocket costs are the responsibility of the client
link to Colorado Judicial Branch website
current costs information published by state
COLORADO STATE COURT COSTS

litigation costs fluctuate - below estimates may be obsolete fees & costs assessed by courts or third party providers are not within attorney control

Court filing fees  (parenting class difference) Cost
Petitioner - step-parent adoption $167.00 *
Statutory Fingerprint Based Background Check - Petitioner Adoptive Parent  
         FBI -  Federal Bureau of Investigation - bank cashier's check and copy of adoption statute required $  18.00
         CBI - Colorado Bureau of Investigation - bank cashier's check required (no form - attorney drafts request) $  16.50
         DHS - Colorado Department of Human Services - bank cashier's check required $  30.00
         Fingerprint cards - blank cards for law enforcement to run fingerprints $    8.00
         CSPD fee for fingerprinting $  30.00
Intervenor $171.00
ADR - Alternate Dispute Resolution - Mediation (fee per party) $100.00 minimum
Birth certificate  
         Colorado $  35.00
         Other states each set own fees
Background search -  cost per person searched
         Petitioner & birth parent relinquishing or to be terminated
Price
 
DMV put of state driving record Varies
Local court archive records search fee (may be more or less) $  10.00
Decree certification at courthouse (certified copies $20 each - # copies may vary) $100.00
Private investigator initial retainer - if relevant - Dave Glenn utilized by attorney
         variable based upon missing birth parent
$______
Process service expense - depends upon location of terminating birth parent $150.00
On-line legal research - dependent upon issues requiring legal research, if any Varies
Travel time and expenses if case outside Colorado Springs Rates

* MULTIPLE CHILDREN  If multiple children are to be adopted, local courts require a separate adoption lawsuit filed for each child where the children have different non-residential birth parents. This would entail additional filing fee and service of process expenses as well as additional time expended by your attorney.

CAVEAT: Not all above costs will be relevant to any given case, and additional expenses not identified may be incurred in any individual case.  Costs quoted are subject to change by independent providers; actual costs paid will be billed.  limited search pricing

 
 
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STEP- PARENT ADOPTION & GRANDPARENT ADOPTION
 

        Fees and costs are not billed until incurred, however in the event client and present spouse separate or terminate the adoption proceeding for any other reason, earned fees and expended costs will not be refunded.  Client should be certain he * she actually desires to adopt before commencing litigation.
 
        In family law cases it is common for the client to provide numerous and perhaps voluminous documents to attorney during representation.  Please refer to Document Management regarding organization and format of documents which client provides to attorney  This will save the client money in attorney fees and costs.

 
        To a large degree, our ability to locate the non-residential birth parent and his or her conduct in defaulting, relinquishing or contesting the suit will determine the final amount of fees and costs.  No two cases are the same.  Resolving your emotions outside of contact with the non-residential birth parent or his * her family may decrease your expenses.
 
        The more complex the case or as justiciable issues increase, fees and costs increase.  This is a reality no matter which attorney a prospective client hires.  You are welcome to review Alternatives to Private Counsel - Other Options and visit with any number of attorneys.  In family law matters, it is especially important that the client be comfortable from the outset with the attorney he or she retains and understand the attorney's billing structure.

 
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OUTSIDE EL PASO COUNTY
 
GEOGRAPHIC DISTANCE
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COURTS IN OTHER COUNTIES

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TRAVEL TIME  *  MILEAGE  *  EXPENSE

Attorney is very willing to travel outside the Colorado Springs area to present or defend a case, but please be aware travel time, mileage and expense would apply.  If you are from out of state or are unfamiliar with Colorado geography, refer to the map to determine where Colorado Springs is located in relation to the county of your court case or hearing.

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If travel is necessary, a trust deposit would be required to cover anticipated travel time, mileage & expenses.  If it is not economically justifiable to retain my services with travel, please contact counsel in the locale of your case.

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Colorado Springs / Manitou Springs / Fountain

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or to discard potential new business, but to be practical.
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WHERE CAN I FIND THE LAW?
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Colorado Courts - Forms - Adoption - Index & Download

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please refer to attorney policy

 

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